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Now enrollingSelf Discipline · 12 weeks · starts Aug 3, 2026
12 weeks · starts Aug 3, 2026
Self Discipline
An extraordinary life takes extraordinary discipline. This is where you build it.
Twelve weeks in your relationship, your health, and your money. Starting August 3.
Complete the program and your tuition covers your seat at our November live event.
Do what you said you would do
Twelve weeks. Three areas. Hard deadlines.
The premise
The best performers have the best discipline
Some people create extraordinary results. Some create pretty good ones. Some create almost nothing at all. The difference isn't talent. It isn't resources. The difference is discipline.
Discipline gets built when you do the thing you don't want to do. When you do the thing you resist, especially when you have massive resistance, you communicate to your mind that you are in charge. You communicate that you are the kind of person that does hard things.
Most people read resistance as a signal to wait. It's the opposite. The more resistance you feel toward an activity, the more that activity is worth doing right now, because that's the rep that actually builds something in you. Easy work doesn't build discipline. It just keeps you where you are.
So we create resistance on purpose so that you create even better results faster!
For twelve weeks you get assignments designed to stretch your comfort zone well past what you're used to, in three areas at once. Every week they go further.
Health
The early alarm. The food you already know you shouldn't be eating. The distance you've never run.
Money or mission
The call you don't want to make. The number you don't want to look at. The work you keep moving to Monday.
HOW IT WORKS
Simply do what you say you will do.
- Step 01
Decide what you want
Get clear on what you really want. Write it down as if it is already done. This is way beyond having a goal. This approach gets you into experiencing the result before you even have it. It create a demand instead of a want.
- Step 02
Get clear on WHY you want it.
Make it a powerful why and you will have all the fuel you need to create it. If you don't have the life you want, it might be worth looking at your why and make it more powerful now. Why is the jet fuel of life!
- Step 03
Take action and make it a habit
Our actions create our results, and our habits form our destiny. This program is focused on creating the life habits that will exponentially transform your life now. The best part is, you choose the habits!
Then we meet as a team every Monday at 6:00 AM Pacific, for twelve weeks to report on your habits and to expand your comfort zone even more through assigned growth actions that we call stretches. Why stretches? Because they stretch your comfort zone so that what once was hard becomes easy and what was once impossible becomes possible.
Go beyond where you have been so that you can live beyond where you were.
How I know this works
I've done it and I've watched other people do it
I'm John Meng. I've finished six full-distance Ironman races, including the Ironman World Championship. But the part worth telling you about is one stretch where Annie and I ran this on ourselves, in four areas all at once.
My accomplishments including competing in three Ironman races where I set a personal record and finished a race with Annie also. I learned to dance and competed in West Coast Swing.
I repaired the relationship with my ex-wife over that same period. Today we take vacations together as a blended family, which is not a sentence I could have written back then.
And we doubled the business to two million a year, operating in three countries. None of it came from motivation. It came from doing scheduled, unpleasant work on days I didn't feel like it.
You can see the same thing in anyone who produces at a high level. Tony Robbins does what he says he'll do whether or not he wants to. David Goggins dropped roughly a hundred pounds in three months and went on to become a Navy SEAL and an Army Ranger.
What people have done in twelve weeks
- 2×Doubled their income
- 20-40Pounds lost
- 13.1Finished a half marathon, having never been runners
- 100'sRepaired relationships they'd written off, and started new ones
Results from past participants. Yours depend on the work you do.
The offer
Do the work and you get to attend Love and Money Live for free
- Starts
- Aug 3, 2026
- Length
- 12 weeks
- Tuition
- $497
Mondays · 6:00 AM Pacific · 30 minutes
Complete the program and your full $497 carries forward to our live event this November. A seat there costs $497, so finishing covers your ticket to the dollar. Nothing prorated, nothing deducted.
We run it this way on purpose. This is how we choose who we invite further in to our community. We work with people who live in full integrity and do what they said they would do, and twelve weeks of assignments with hard deadlines tells us that better than any application ever could. We'll teach you how to build it first. Show us you did the work and you are invited to create even better results and have a bigger impact on the world with us.
Enrollment closes when the program starts on August 3.
Questions
Before you commit
- Who is this for?
- Anyone who already knows what they should be doing and isn't doing it. You don't need to be an athlete or a business owner. You need to be willing to be uncomfortable on a schedule.
- How much time does it take?
- One thirty-minute call, Mondays at 6:00 AM Pacific. The assignments happen inside the life you're already living, so what this really costs you is discomfort, not hours.
- What happens to my $497?
- Every assignment has a deadline. On time counts, late doesn't. Complete the program and the full $497 carries to our November live event, which is exactly what a seat there costs. To be clear about what that is: the money moves forward, it doesn't come back to your card.
- How hard is this really?
- There's no complexity to it at all. Do what you said you would do. That's the entire program. It's also the hardest thing most people will take on, because every one of us has been taught that it's fine to not do what we said we'd do. Twelve weeks of flipping that.